100 Dating Tips for you
1. Don’t take dating too seriously.
This basically means that you should enjoy your dates more. Aside from that, you
should also view dating as something that can offer you an opportunity to meet new
people and socialize. Moreover, it can also offer you a potential to finding someone
whom you can build a relationship with.
2. Don’t date out of desperation.
Never date just because you are desperate of having a relationship. This is because it
can lead to having someone whom you may want to change for the better, in the future.
Aside from that, since desperation can cloud your judgment, you may end up with
someone who will just make you more insecure.
3. Don’t date other people to make someone jealous.
When you are dating another person just to make someone jealous about it, then you
are not doing anyone a favour. This is because; you might end up showing the other
person that you really like him or her. Aside from that, chances are, you might also
suggest that you really are enjoying yourself with another company when you are not.
4. Practice caution on multiple dating.
When you are dating a number of men or women, you might end up stressing yourself
out. This is because multiple dating is never easy, and it needs you to become very
organized. Although you may be enjoying the variety of persons multiple dating can
offer to you, it is still less stressful when you are not always worrying about sending the
wrong text messages or emails to the wrong person.
5. Be yourself.
Being yourself in dating can go a long way, especially if you are on a quest to finding a
person to have a healthy relationship with. This is because when you won’t be hiding
anything from your date, you can be assured that he would be accepting you just the
way you are, if your relationship grows.
6. Don’t date to play games.
Dating can involve emotions of people who are included in it. Therefore, if you are
looking at date, as something that you enjoy just like your games, then you should
rethink it. This is because playing games with people’s emotions is not a good idea.
Thus, it is best to see it as something that is serious, since, just like you, other people
also do not want to get hurt.
7. Lending money to your date.
If you want to lend money to your date, you have to make sure that you are already in a
relationship. Aside from that, you should also trust him or her. This is because if you
lend someone money, whom you are not in a deep relationship with, then there is a
huge possibility that he or she won’t be able to pay you with the money you lent.
8. Enjoy dating not just for sex.
When you are enjoying your sexual interactions, it can affect your decision making,
which can cause negative results. Therefore, it is always suggested not to sleep with
someone on the first few dates. By doing that, you can focus more on getting to know
the other person, which may include discovering common values.
9. Get out of the house.
Although online dating is quite popular these days, it is always better to go out in order
to find dates. This is because dating offline is more fun, due to the fact that you get to
meet your date personally. Aside from that, when you go outside, it increases your
dating potentials further, which can help you end up with someone whom you really
enjoy being with.
10. Take a break.
Taking a break from dating can be a good idea, especially if it is making you more
miserable. A break from dating can be made for a period of 3 to 6 months. In taking a
break, it can provide you with time to rediscover yourself. This basically means that it
can offer you more time in getting involved with a hobby, or catching up with your
11. Get to know yourself better.
To enjoy dating more, you need to know yourself better. This means you should
determine what you like, what your interests are, what your goals are, and such. By
taking note of these things, you will be guided better in choosing your dates. However, it
is always a better idea to get out of your comfort zone from time to time to try new
12. Avoid negative individuals.
When you are around negative individuals, it would affect your mindset and it can also
affect your judgment in a negative way. This is because when you are near them, you
might become one of them. Therefore, to enjoy your dates, you should always surround
yourself with positive individuals, so that prior to meeting up with him or her, you have a
13. Engaging into phone or online sex.
Engaging into online or phone sex is not a good idea. This is because you cannot
expect anything from it, but just a waste of your time. This is because people who do
these sorts of things often are involve with it just to while away their extra time. Thus, it
you participate in it, then you cannot expect them to respect you.
14. Acknowledge the presence of dubious behavior.
If you have been with lots of failed relationships, then you must realize that many of
these breakups, could have been prevented, if you acknowledge the presence of
dubious behavior in the early stages of the relationship, or during your dating times.
Therefore, if you see these things on your date, then you should confront him or her
about it, or simply look for another one.
15. Have a life.
If you have found a date whom you really like, it is very important that you are still aware
of your priorities. Thus, you should not become dependent on him or her, so that he
would see you as someone who is independent and confident. If you won’t focus on
having your own life, then you might end up neglecting yourself, your friends, family, or
even your work.
16. Criticizing the date.
You won’t be able to gain lots of things if you criticize your date by talking about him or
her with your friends. Always keep in mind that you also do not want to be criticized on
your actions. Thus, if you simply don’t like your date, then you should be mature enough
not to set up another encounter with the person.
17. Control your drinks.
Drinking a bottle or two of your favorite beer while you are dating is not a sin. However,
you should limit the number of bottles you consume, since you might end up losing
control of yourself when you have too much to drink. Thus, if you tend to over drink,
then you should avoid it by all means, since you might lose your chances of starting a
relationship with your date.
18. Out of your league.
There is always a tendency to bring down yourself, when you think that your date is
simply out of your league. This way of thinking about your self worth should not be
encouraged, since if you tend to believe that you are not good enough for a certain
individual, then you may end up with someone who is also not good enough, or simply
another person who thinks the same way as you do. Thus, it is time to become more
confident, so that you can find the person that you really are looking for.
19. Determine what you really want out of dating.
In determining what you really want in dating, you should be able to prevent wasting
yours and someone else’s time. Thus, you need to determine whether you are dating to
start a brand new relationship, to simply have fun, or to pass your time. By doing that,
you can also base your search for your date on it, to find the right person.
20. Fix yourself up for the date.
When you make an effort on your appearance on your date, you can increase the
chances of having a good time in it. This is because it can make you feel good about
yourself, and increase your self confidence. Aside from that, you can also ensure to
have the right mindset, which can prepare you to have a positive conversation with him
21. Smile on your date.
When you smile, everyone else around you would feel like smiling as well, including
your date. Thus, it would encourage a more positive environment between you and your
potential partner. Smiling can lead to a more enjoyable conversation, which can make
you and your date have more fun while you are both enjoying your meal.
22. Your posture.
Becoming more conscious on your posture can provide you with lots of benefits in terms
of your health, as well as your date. This is because it can show your date that you are
a strong and an independent individual. Aside from that, it would make you feel more
confident, aside from making you feel that you are taller.
Shaving is something that both men and women should do, prior to going on a date. For
men, having a well shaved face would impress most women, since women see it as a
sign of a man’s cleanliness. For women, it is best that they shave their underarms, since
a man could get easily turned off if he sees that his date has hair in that part of her
24. Being conscious of your voice.
To sound more mature, it is best that you gain better control of your voice. Maintaining a
calmed and low toned voice is the best way to do it. This is because if you talk in a high
tone or with cracking sounds, then your date would have a tendency to see you as
someone who is immature. Thus, it is best if you train yourself for this.
25. Your smell.
Smelling good is very important on a date. Thus, using a good perfume or even just a
good smelling cologne would already impress your date. Aside from that, you should
always make sure that you wear a reliable deodorant, since if you sweat and its odor
mixes with your perfume, then you might need to kiss your chances of having a second
26. Taboo subjects.
Picking the right kinds of topics for your conversation is one of the most important things
that you need to take note of, while you are on a date. To make it easier though, you
should avoid talking about subjects that are taboo, since it would not encourage a more
relaxing environment. Focus on more lighter topics, so that you and your date would
enjoy the conversation more.
27. Avoid a bad mood.
Anything that can cause someone to have a bad mood should be avoided in any case,
when you are on a date. This is because having a bad mood can make a dream date
into a nightmare. Thus, it is best that you always focus on the positive side of things.
Aside from that, you should also avoid sarcasm. Moreover, it is never a good idea to be
late on your first date.
28. Use the name of your date.
Using the name of your date all throughout the night on your conversation would help
you a lot. By doing that, you would actually be helping yourself in remembering his or
her name, since you are constantly saying it. Aside from that, it can also create a more
intimate atmosphere between you and your date.
29. Use different perfumes or colognes.
If you have been going out with a woman or a man for several occasions, then you
should change your perfume or cologne, each time you go out with your date. This is
because variety is the spice of life. Aside from that, you can actually impress your date
by asking them about what type of cologne he or she likes best, and wear it on the next
30. Stay fit.
Staying as fit as you can be would make you more attractive, aside from the fact that it
would also boost your self esteem. Because of that, you would be able portray a more
confident self when you meet with your date for the first time. Therefore, it is time that
you get some exercise on a regular basis, and combine it with a healthy diet.
31. You are serious about your future.
When you show your date that you are serious about your future, then it provides them
with reassurance that you can also serious about them. Although your date may not be
looking for a long term relationship, it is still best if you treat him or her as someone who
could be your potential partner, especially if you really like them.
32. Be someone your date can introduce to her parents.
If you are serious about your date, then you should give him or her an impression that
you are worthy to be introduced to your date’s parents. This means that you need to
become presentable, by dressing and behaving appropriately. This does not mean that
you need to become too serious though. Telling a joke or two would definitely make you
more comfortable with each other.
33. Never interrupt.
Interrupting someone while he or she is talking is not a good idea, especially on a date.
Unless if you want to annoy your date, you should never interrupt while he or she is
talking, since it can be viewed as a sign of disrespect. Always let your date finish what
he or she is saying, so that you would also be able to understand what they are trying to
34. Don’t be a whiner.
When you are on a date, one of the worst things that you can do is to become a whiner.
A whiner often complains about everything, and always tell his or herself that he or she
is a loser. Being a whiner on a date is not just annoying, but it can make the other
person wish that he or she did not go out with you after all.
35. Don’t be a crybaby.
A crybaby is someone who always talks about his or her past mistakes, problems, or
past relationship failures. More often than not, crybabies are looking for shoulders to
lean on. However, becoming a shoulder to lean on is not the main purpose of going on
a date. Thus, you can’t expect your date to offer you his or her shoulder once you vent
out of your feelings regarding your experiences in the past.
36. Let your date talk.
If you want your date to have a good time, then let them talk. People always appreciate
it when someone asks for their opinion about something, in which they would enjoy
talking about the reasons they say certain things are good or bad. To achieve this, all
you actually have to do is to ask open-ended questions.
37. Be a friend to your date.
Becoming a friend to your date is not a bad idea, especially if you have already dated a
couple of times. When you become an understanding friend to your date, then he or she
will be grateful about it. To be a friend to your date, you simply need to listen to them
whenever they need to vent out their emotions about certain things.
Lots of people do not open up too much or invest too much emotions on their dates or
potential partners. This is because, they are afraid of getting hurt, or they were hurt
before. Thus, it is best that you become a person whom your date can trust. By doing
that, you would become closer to your date, once he or she gains more trust in you.
39. Touching your date.
For a man, if his date touches him, he can interpret it as something positive. However,
for women, touching them on the first date may not be a good idea, because some may
become offended by it. Only touch a woman when she becomes more comfortable with
you, in which you already engage into dancing, or if she touches you when you tell
Some people love dating a mysterious person since they love to slowly uncover things
about him or her, as they go on more dates; and, this is especially true to most women.
Being mysterious means that you give your date an idea about what you are, but you
are not going into more details about it. It leaves them a feeling of hanging, in which
they would want to know you more.
41. Learn how to read palms.
Becoming a palm reader can impress your date, aside from the fact that it can give you
a chance to hold her hands. Reading your date’s palms would create a more relaxed
atmosphere, between you and her. Thus, it can pave the way to more interesting
conversations. Aside from that, it can also make her more comfortable of the fact that
you are touching her.
42. Be polite but don’t overdo it.
Although opening doors to a woman is indeed a polite thing to do, it is best that you
don’t overdo it. This is because women today do not want to feel like they are helpless
persons. Thus, it is best if you do it with caution from this day on, so that you won’t be
offending your date, by being too polite.
43. Business cards.
If you want your dates to have something that he or she can remember you with, then
you should bring with you a number of business cards when you go out with them.
Although the best thing to do to be remembered well is to impress your date, having
business cards can also provide a unique impression.
44. Doing little things.
If you have been dating someone for quite some time already and you want to make
him or her feel special, then you should do little things for your date. Giving her a flower
from time to time, or treating him for a snack would go a long way, as far as cultivating
your relationship is concerned.
45. Never stalk.
When you have gone out with a person whom you really like and you want to see him or
her more, it is not a good idea to stalk them. This is because, it can become quite
uncomfortable for a person to see his or her date, on every place that they visit. If you
want to see your date more, then you should establish contact with them, and see if he
or she is still interested.
Learning how to dance would give you lots of benefits, aside from gaining a more
flexible body. It can actually help in impressing your date. A man can easily become
impressed if he sees that his potential partner is a good dancer, since it shows him how
sexy she can be. Aside from that, dancing with each other can create a more
comfortable environment between the two persons.
47. The things you need to know on the first date.
There are lots of things that you need to know about your date on the first time you go
out with them. One of which would be his or her dislikes, since it can save you
headaches. Aside from that, it is very important to know if he or she is currently involved
with someone or is married, so that you would know if he or she is worth your time.
48. Starting or keeping a conversation going.
There are lots of things that you can say in order to start or keep a conversation going.
One of the things that you can do is to compliment her. Aside from that, you can also
ask your date about how their day went by. Moreover, asking questions, especially
those that may require your date an explanation about his or her answer is also a good
49. Making compliments.
For a man, making compliments on the woman he is dating is one of the best ways to
make her feel appreciated. This is because women in most cases, share a fear about
not being attractive on certain occasions. Therefore, if you want to make your date more
comfortable with you, then you should compliment how her hair looks like, how her
perfume smells so good, and such.
50. Be successful.
If you have gone through a good number of dates already, you would realize that in
most cases, topics in a conversation can include where you have been, what you have
achieved, and many more. Thus, if you have attained success in life, then there is a
good chance that your date would be impressed by your life story.
51. No sex talks.
No sex talks should be a rule that you need to follow, especially in first dates. This is
because first and second dates are usually the time when you get to know the other
person, who can be your potential boyfriend or girlfriend. Talking about sex might give
the wrong impression about your intentions, which can make the other person feel
52. Be nice.
Being nice can mean a lot of things, especially for a guy. Nice can mean desirable,
normal, presentable, trustable, helpful, or friendly; and, lots of women are actually on
the lookout for the nice guys. Thus, taking note of these things can help you make a
good impression on your dates.
53. What to do with your apartment.
Whether you are a boy or a girl, you need to come up with an apartment that makes you
look more mature, especially if you are approaching a stage, where you are planning to
invite your date inside. The apartment should be tidy and clean, and it should be free
from posters. Instead, decorate your apartment in a more mature way, and get it
organized well, so that you can impress your date.
54. Calling him or her.
If he or she gives you their contact number after a date, you should not call them a day
after. Calling just a day after your date is too soon, which can scare your date away. It
gives an impression that you are too eager in listening to his or her voice. Thus, it is
best if you give him or her a call only after 2 to 4 days after you meet them for the first
55. Make memories.
If you are dating the girl of your dreams, make sure to do something that would make
memories. You might be glad that you were able to strike a stimulating conversation
with her at the bar, but it may not be enough for your date to be memorable. To achieve
that, you should do something different, such as bringing her to the zoo, to a circus, or
even just a nice walk in the park.
56. Dating is discovering.
Dating is actually a stage in a relationship where you would begin to discover certain
things about an individual. Thus, it is best that you have a good conversation with your
date, so that you would be able to know him or her better. Knowing your date better
would offer you a chance to see if you really are compatible or not.
57. Sharing common values.
Dating can provide you a chance to know whether you and your date share common
values. Although sexual chemistry and sharing common interests are two important
things to get started on a relationship, sharing common values is much more important,
since it can cultivate a more lasting relationship. Thus, it is best that you take advantage
of dating to find out more about it.
58. Dating is not something like a vocation.
Dating is not a vocation. Therefore, one of your main objectives in dating should be to
have fun in meeting new people. It is not something that you need to do in order to have
a life. Although there are lots of things that you need to take note of when it comes to
dating, it shouldn’t be treated as something that you really need to perform well on.
Thus, have some fun, so that you can be yourself in dating.
59. Never date when you are not over your ex.
If you are not over your ex yet, then you should not go on dates. This is because your
emotions can end up destroying all your dates. You might engage into self-pity while
you are talking with your dates, aside from talking all about your ex and his or her
shortcomings. Thus, make sure that you are completely over your ex prior to dating, so
that your potential partners won’t avoid you.
60. Online dating is just one of your options in meeting people.
Many people today engage into online dating, especially those who are quite busy with
their own careers. However, online dating should just be viewed as a way to increasing
your chances of meeting more people whom you may be able to date. Thus, it is just
one of the many options that you have when it comes to that. You should still go out,
and meet new people personally, so that you can have a more interesting life.
61. You are not in a relationship yet on your first date.
This is one of the most important things that you need to remember when you go on
your first date. You are not in a relationship yet, since you don’t know each other that
well. Thus, put some boundaries when it comes to sharing stories. Aside from that, you
should also avoid acting like you are your date’s girlfriend or boyfriend, since that would
just scare them off.
62. Know your limits.
You limits can sometimes tell you who you really are. Therefore, it is best that you
become more aware of it. Aside from that, when you know what your limits are, you can
always do something in order to go beyond it. Just make sure that you stay within the
boundaries, so that you could still be able to portray the person that you really are.
63. You are worthy.
If you are awed by the presence of your date, you should take control of yourself, by
knowing that you are indeed worthy to be his or her date. By doing this, you can
become more confident of yourself. Aside from that, if you end up having a relationship
with that particular person, it would create a balance between you, which is also very
64. Enjoying dating does not mean you have to be blind.
You don’t need to be blind in order to enjoy dating. Many people have a tendency to
meet the needs of others, in which they become blind and forget to see their own
needs. Thus, it creates an imbalance in a relationship, which is not healthy. Therefore,
you should always keep an open ear and an open mind in having a relationship. This
way, you would be able to have a relationship, which is not one sided.
65. It is not a requirement for you to be interested when someone is interested in you.
You could easily tell if your date is genuinely interested in you. However, this does not
mean that you also need to become interested in him or her. When a person shows an
interest in you, you don’t need to reciprocate it, if you don’t want to. This is because if
you force yourself into doing that, you would just be lying to yourself, and be misleading
the other person.
66. Finding your type.
When a person says that his or her “type” is this or that, it means that he or she has
some preconceived ideas about the person who he or she is attracted to. However, if
dating your “type” does not provide you a fulfilling and healthy relationship, then you
should let go of your preconceived ideas, and become more open minded about dating.
67. Don’t date someone who only communicates through text.
If someone is talking or communicating to you only through text messages, then it is
best not to stay in constant communication with them anymore. This is because, in most
cases, he or she is seeing you as someone who is good for just a booty call. Thus, it is
best to go out with persons who respect you enough to contact you by giving you a call.
68. Do your research.
No matter how the other person shows you how he or she is interested in you, in which
he or she initiates the first steps to get into a date with you, you should not be
complacent, and still do your research. This is because, you don’t really know what their
intentions are. With thorough research, you can feel safer in dating the person, aside
from the fact that it can also help you see whether he is attached or not.
69. Ask questions.
Before going into your third date, you should know whether a person is still trying to get
over an ex, is married, or has just been separated. To achieve that, you need to ask
questions regarding all of these. If you can’t do it on your first date, then make sure to
do it on the second date so that you are assured that you are not wasting your time on
him or her.
70. Don’t cloud your judgment.
If you focus too much on the achievements of a person or how much the person is
earning on a monthly basis, it can lead you to make incorrect conclusions about people.
Thus, you need to look pass that, so that you would be able to see what the person is
really made of. Talk to your date and listen attentively, so that you can see the real
71. Meet new people and make new experiences.
If you always go through the same daily routine that you are used to, even on
weekends, then you may not be able to get a date that could change your life. Thus,
you need to put some variety into your life, by going to new and interesting places,
where you could meet new people. By doing that, you won’t just be relying on your luck
on scoring a date, but you are making things happen on your own.
72. To enjoy dating, you need to invest time and effort.
There may be times when you don’t feel like going out for a date. However, since you
have already set the time, and you don’t want to make a fool of someone else, then you
need to do it. The date may not be that great, but there is also a good possibility that it
would. Therefore, aside from investing time and effort, you should also take a chance.
73. Don’t expect too much from people.
When you expect too much from your date, you may end up getting disappointed about
him or her. The best way to do it is to not expect anything from someone, which you are
not also capable of doing by yourself. Aside from that, it is best to expect less from
them, so that you would get surprised when your date does something great that you
are not expecting.
74. Getting to know your date.
Getting to know your date is one of the best things that you can do, in order to see if you
can really build a lasting relationship with them. Thus, you need to ask questions about
what your date believes in, what he or she is planning for her life, what his or her goals
are, and more. Aside from asking questions though, you should also observe if they are
living the way they say they are.
75. Don’t be too fast in writing off somebody.
If you are not able to hit it off right away on your first date, there is no need to write off
somebody right away. This is because, it is very possible that you or your date may not
be comfortable with you yet. In most cases, it takes around 2 or 3 dates, before you
could get a sense, whether you are really interested in the person or not.
76. Never force yourself to liking someone.
Forcing yourself to liking someone is never a good idea, unless you simply want to try it
out. It does not mean that if your date is the nicest one you have went out with that you
should like him. This is because being nice is not the only requirement for a relationship
to grow. You also need to share common interests and values, so that you can agree on
lots of things.
77. Lazy communication.
There are certain persons who communicate only through text, emails, or instant
messages. If you want a more open relationship, then you should avoid these types of
persons. This is because these ones usually do not want to reveal themselves to other
individuals. Aside from that, they may also become lazy on their relationships.
78. Can the other person give you what you want in a relationship?
This is a question that you need to ask to yourself, especially when you have taken
further steps in your relationship, after dating a number of times. This is because you
want to make sure that you are investing on something that is worth every minute of
your time. Aside from that, it can also prevent you from expecting too much from
79. Be careful in telling your date about your past relationships.
Your first and second dates are not the best times in telling your date about your past
relationships. This is because it can make the other person be bored with all your past
stories. You should know that your date is interested in you, and not your past. Aside
from that, your information about your past relationships should not be shared to
someone whom you do not trust fully yet.
80. Going to movies.
Watching movies should not be done on your first few dates. This is because these
dates should be the stage where you want to get to know each other well. When you go
inside the movie theater, on top of being too dark, it won’t allow you to talk to each other
well. In relation to this, on these first few dates, you should do something, which
involves lots of interaction.
81. Pay attention.
Paying attention to your date is a must, if you want to make sure that you are indeed
dating someone who has no issues. Paying attention can help you identify signs, which
can tell you about the negative behavior of your potential partner. By doing this, you
would become more aware of the things that you need to consider, on deciding whether
you want to see him or her again or not.
82. Stay away from your date’s home.
If it is still your first, second, third, or fourth date, you should stay away from your date’s
home. This is because it is simply too soon to be invited over to a house, or inviting
someone, unless you both want to go to the bedroom immediately, and it is your
purpose of going out. If that is not the case though, only visit your date’s house when
you are already in the latter stages of your relationship.
83. Be honest.
If you are really interested about the other person, then you should not hide it. Dating
should not be a game, since it can make you send out all the wrong messages. Instead,
you should be as honest as possible, so that your date can also see your true self. By
doing that, you would be able to build your relationship on the right path.
84. Show that you are interested.
Showing the other person that you are interested is a must, especially if you really are.
This is because it can build his or her self esteem, knowing that you may be looking
forward to seeing him or her again. With that, you both would become more excited in
seeing each other, and be able to enjoy each other’s company more.
85. Your mobile phone.
When you are on a date, one of the things that can annoy the other person is when you
stop your conversation in order to answer a call, or read a text message. Therefore, you
should turn off your mobile phone or put it in silent mode, prior to sitting in front of your
date at the dining table. Just answer the messages when you go to the restroom.
86. Talking and listening.
Some people think that they need to talk a lot in order to impress their dates. However,
you need to maintain a good balance in talking and listening when you are on a date. If
you are doing most of the talking, then your date may not be interested in sharing some
information to you or you simply are not giving them a chance to talk.
87. Talk about yourself positively.
You need to build yourself up in your date, so that you can sell yourself effectively.
Thus, you need to be aware of your positive traits. By doing that, you would be able to
talk about yourself in a more positive tone, which can impress the other person.
However, you need to be careful in doing it, so that you won’t become someone who is
88. Building your profile in online dating.
Since online dating is quite popular these days, then you should also take advantage of
it. When it comes to building up your profile, make sure to indicate whether you are
interested in a long term relationship or not. By doing this, you can effectively filter out
the persons who do not share the same goals as you do.
89. Tell a friend or a close relative that you are going on a date.
Since there are lots of crazy people these days, it is always a good idea to tell a friend
or a close relative about your date. You should tell them about the time and the venue
just to be on the safe side. To feel more secure though, you can always prefer to go on
a date in a more public venue.
90. You don’t have to research about your date’s ex.
One of the most important things in dating is to be yourself. Therefore, you should not
do your research about your date’s ex, since you may have a tendency to develop a
sense of insecurity because of that. Instead, focus on revealing your true self to your
date, so that he or she would be able to decide whether you are indeed the one that
they are looking for or not.
91. Don’t be too available.
If a person you are dating has let a week gone by before calling you up to set up
another date, then you should not accept the invitation. This is because it could show
them that you are too available, or are desperate in going out. If a person thinks about
you that way, then he may begin to think about you in a negative way and come up with
92. Don’t be confrontational.
You might think that being confrontational or aggressive can make the other person
think that you are self reliant and self-assured. Although this is true, it is actually not a
good idea to make this kind of impression on your first few dates. This is because, the
other person may come to think that you would be using your aggressive behavior to
manipulate him or her.
93. What to do when your date is reluctant in answering your questions.
Asking the right questions is very important in order to gain the right information from
your date. However, if your date is having second thoughts in answering them, then
either he or she is hiding something from you, or is trying to come up with a lie. You
can’t date someone who is not an open book, since you might end up expecting
something that he or she cannot provide.
94. You can always say no.
It is quite understandable that you want to be agreeable in order to prevent
confrontations. However, you can always say no if you really disagree on something. By
doing that, you are actually being honest to your date. Aside from that, it would let your
date get to know you better, and would also encourage them to be themselves as well.
95. If you want honesty, be honest.
Since you want your date to be honest, you should also be honest yourself. Being
honest means that you are being yourself. By doing that, you are actually revealing
yourself to your date, and it is up to him or her to like you for it or not. When you are
honest, it may also encourage the other person to be honest as well. Besides, being
honest can also help you see if the other person is lying or is telling you the truth.
96. It is fine to be unsure on the first date.
If you are not so sure about the outcome of your first date and you are still willing to give
it a try, then you should contact the other person 2 to 4 days later. Some people can
take some time to become more comfortable with someone new. Thus, after a few
dates, you should be able to conclude whether you can start a relationship with your
date or not.
98. Don’t date just because your friends and family tell you so.
When you date just because your friends and family tell you so, then you are not being
true to yourself. This can lead you to dates that are not worth remembering, especially if
you live it to them in setting you up with someone they know. Thus, it is best that you
would go out on a date, because you really want to.
99. Choosing a site for online dating.
Online dating provides you a way to meet people that share your interests. In choosing
the site though, it is best that you do your research about it. By doing that, you would be
ensuring that your information is safe. Aside from that, researching can also help you
choose a site that would raise your potentials in finding the person you are meant to be
100. You don’t have to say that you love a person.
Only say the three magic words, when you really mean it. Thus, you don’t have to say it
when you truly appreciate the other person for his or her actions. Aside from that, even
though you really think that you are falling for him or her, you should not say these
words until you have begun building the first few blocks of your relationship.
101. What it means if your date tells you he or she loves you.
If a person tells you that he or she loves you, even when you are still at the first or
second date, then it can mean a lot of things. For instance, they may simply want to get
you to bed, or are simply not evaluating their feelings well. Nevertheless, this means
that he or she is speeding things up, instead of letting your relationship grow on a more